What is Priority
The word priority is maybe a small word but has a deep untouchable meaning in everyone's life. And why is that, it's a long and never-ending topic. But some of the stakeholders that we can see and accept are as follows:-
1. Upbringing-:
Everyone has a very different upbringing, the love and care that a person gets are very elaborative and it plays a very important role in how a child behaves react to different situations of their life. So many emotions manifold in this upbringing only, for example, anger issues, patience, how to tackle challenges, strong emotional intelligence, etc...
2. Hereditary-:
In many cases and studies, we see heredity also plays an important role in it, like if someone's parents are emotionally weak they try to rely on drugs for that, and by seeing parents sometimes children also follow that path.
Children who grew in a household where they are surrounded with regular fights, lack of peace, and don't get a loving family, often are the victims of depression, loneliness, etc
No matter how much money a person is earning for the family at the end of the day we all need love and peace that's all,
All the luxury and comfort go out of the window if you don't have a loving family because luxury can divert a person and make you feel good for a temporary basis, but not permanently.
Now let's come to the nucleus of this article that is 'priority, so in the above space, we have discussed two main stakeholders that also shape the priorities of a person's life.
Some people's priorities are their family, like the housewives who just want to make the family happy at the end of the day.
Some peoples priority is work, so the point of this article is what should be the priority of a person life, is it to build themself first, then think about others or to give up everything for the family,
My opinion here is, you can't make everyone happy, just pick some most important people in your life and do what you love, because if someone really cares about you and loves you, they will definitely stand by you at the end of the day.
Maybe today, your parents are not supporting you in your life decisions but if you are determined they will definitely be with you in your success and happiness
And one more important thing, never ever depend on anyone blindly, first build yourself up, that much so that whatever situation comes in you can fight through that physically and emotionally.
In today's world, it is very very important for not only a girl but for everyone.
PRIORITY- Do what your heart feels good and your mind says ok... without compromising with your dignity and self-respect.....
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